The title I'd like for my story is "Positive Defiance."
My childhood was challenging. My father, God rest his soul, discovered a month after I was born that the left side of my body was essentially "lifeless," while my right side was vibrant and full of energy. When I imagine myself at that time, I see a bright, happy side that loves life, and a silent, gray side without vitality. Thus began my long journey of treatment. As I write this now, in my youth, I remember my first step at age five as if it were a scene from a movie, with every detail - like the doctor smiling and calling me to step towards him. I smile with gratitude and say, "Thank God."
My story truly began after I graduated high school. I faced a choice: I could follow society's expectations and live as a girl with limited mobility, hidden from the world, or I could create my own path, completing my college education and pursuing success. God blessed me with a father who loved, supported, and stood by me in every way. I studied Computer Information Systems, earned certifications in web application programming, and continued to challenge myself.
A key part of my story involves my father. Despite his unwavering support, my life took a turn in 2022 when he was diagnosed with cancer and began chemotherapy. Before I continue, let me tell you about my father. He was my role model, a well-known construction professional, but one day he felt pain in his left leg. After visiting a doctor, he was diagnosed with diabetes and, unfortunately, gangrene in his foot, leading to an amputation below the knee. It was a devastating moment, but he didn't give up. He got a prosthetic leg and continued to support me, standing strong through every challenge.
In 2023, however, his illness had spread, and there was no longer hope for a cure. It seemed as if his final act of love was to help me become independent. For the first time, I traveled alone to another town to complete an internship. I was afraid, but he stayed in contact, encouraging me. He even suggested I get my driver’s license, which I passed on the first try. He shared many moments of pride with me, including my college graduation and passing the driving test. My father passed away in early 2024, and I thank God for every beautiful memory with him.
As for me, Mariana Algafy, I have made a significant recovery and am able to move and walk. This is where my story of defiance against reality truly begins. I earned a Bachelor’s in Computer Information Systems, a diploma in fashion design, and even started a small business from home. Today, I don't see myself as weak or disabled. On the contrary, I feel like a miracle, blessed with a beautiful smile. When people who don’t know my story meet me, I often hear, "Your name is unique, and your personality is wonderful." I think this is God's way of compensating for the hardships I endured as a child.
Let me tell you a bit about my project. I, Mariana Algafy, am the founder of a handmade embroidery business, creating embroidered bags, pouches, keychains, frames, and gifts for various occasions. I love what I do, and every item I make is filled with love. My dream is to become a global success story. I want to leave you with a quote I cherish: "You will not simply fade as long as you strive, attempt, and desire. You will become who you believe you can be."
Mariana Algafy
Hebron, Palestine
